So many people ask me the question, “Dr. Saira, if I am really as great as you tell me I am, then why am I still single?”
This question breaks my heart, for many reasons.
Yes, you may still be single, but that is only part of the story. If true love is what you are looking for, you will indeed find it. But there is some fine print you need to know about. If you want to be in a committed, loving, mutually beneficial, long-term partnership, you are going to have to let go of your control and perfectionism. Because people are not computers, they will not follow predictable patterns, nor will they always behave the way you hope they will.